In the course of your relationship it is possible that one day your man will come to tell you that, as sorry as he is, he doesn't love you anymore. A few words that can make you miss the ground from under your feet and throw you into total doubt.
If he has already left you you are wondering how to win him back, while if you are still together you want to know what to do in order to save the relationship. Either way you find yourself facing a mix of frightening emotions and sensations.
That's why I decided to write this guide. Today we will see in detail how to deal with a man who says he doesn't love you anymore, so that you can better face this delicate moment.
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When a man no longer loves you: psychology
Before alarming you, I would like you to stop and reflect on what you will read, as well as a picture of the situation from a psychological point of view. I know it is difficult keep your nerve in these situations, but it is important to be able to do so.
The first thing I want you to know is that it is normal that feelings can decrease, disappear, return or increase during the course of a relationship. After so many years together it is possible that love turns into affection, just as it is possible to rekindle passion.
In a relationship there is nothing static, also because as human beings we are always subjected to a process of change. The latter, at times, can come to touch the sentimental sphere.
Consequently, the fact that he no longer loves you does not mean that the relationship cannot be saved, nor that he cannot return to having strong feelings for you. It happens to all couples to face a moment of down in which it is believed that love has completely disappeared, yet many times it returns, even stronger than before.
This is something that can also happen just in case he had already left you. Indeed, on this occasion you both have the opportunity to question yourself, ask yourself if you were really happy and understand what problems led you to distance yourself.
In short, even if I know that what you are experiencing is a delicate situation, know that not all evils come to harm. If you are patient and follow the advice in this article, you have a good chance of save the day, and to let your partner understand that your story still has many positive emotions to give you in the future.
He doesn't love me anymore: what to do
Now that we understand that your couple is experiencing a problem that borders on most relationships, we can move on to the next point. Here, in fact, you will find gods advice and to the ideas that you can use to figure out what to do if he doesn't love you anymore.
To respond to any kind of situation, know that what you are about to read will come in handy both in case you are still together and in case he has left you. The point, in fact, is to understand what the your approach in his regards.
1. Accept the situation
This is probably the hardest thing you'll have to do if he has told you he doesn't love you anymore. As I said, staying calm is not easy, because you want to do everything to run for cover and safeguard your relationship.
The point is that you are now in a flurry of emotions, thoughts and feelings that would almost certainly lead you to make mistakes. What is important is that you do not get rushed to fix things, because we talk about topics and problems that they take time in order to be resolved.
First, therefore, you will have to accept the situation in which you find yourself. It is only when we recognize that we have a problem that we can think of solutions. So rationalize, accept what is happening and don't be fooled by haste.
2. Don't put pressure on him
This is one of the mistakes you could risk making if you get caught up in theanxiety of the moment. He no longer loves you and you, on the other hand, to understand what he thinks, what he feels and what he intends to do, you begin to become insistent.
Instead, what you should do is give him his space, avoiding becoming morbid or being omnipresent. As difficult as it is, try not to text him 200 a day, not to call him every two by three, and not to request meetings to talk.
All this will do nothing but make him feel pressured, leading him to desire even more space and to understand that most likely, if he feels the need to be away from you, then he doesn't really love you anymore.
3. Focus on yourself
Another piece of advice that I invite you to follow is to not get down and not spend your days feeling sorry for yourself. This is a pivotal moment and you need to make sure that he can feel attracted to you in order to re-evaluate his feelings.
And to feel attracted to you it is important that you you commit yourself to be well. Try to have fun, go out with your friends, move the focus away from the problem by starting new hobbies, dedicating time to yourself.
This will not only allow him to see that you haven't fallen apart, but it will give you a chance to keep your pain in check. Try to react and put yourself at the center of your thoughts, actions and days.
4. Let some time pass
In part, we have seen the discussion of time in point number one. As I told you, it is important that you do not face yourself to trick from the thought that it is something that you can manage to fix in the course of a few days.
If he doesn't love you anymore, he must have it chance to rediscover the feeling he had for you, whether you are still together or have already broken up. The advice I want to give you is to take into account that it will take weeks, or perhaps months, before the situation is completely settled.
Also, he also needs to understand how he actually feels about you, and those things are not understood overnight. So, as difficult as it is, plan to let some time pass: you both need it.
He no longer loves me: how to win him back
A little while ago we saw some tips that will be useful for you to better face this moment in which he told you he doesn't love you anymore. We are talking about 4 steps that are easy to say, but less to do, I realize.
However, as I told you, the your approach it really matters to him at this time in your life. You can't afford to get anxious or panicked and risk making one mistake after another.
At the same time, however, as you may imagine, to win back a man who no longer loves you there are many other techniques and strategies that you need to know, deepen and implement.
