Socializing in person nowadays is getting harder and harder: find out with us how to start a conversation with a girl!
We had previously talked about the best topics to talk to a girl about. Today let's talk about the first step: how to start a conversation with a girl.
Socializing with people seems difficult for most of us. Starting a conversation with a girl, even a very attractive one, is even more intimidating for most guys.
My friends, let me tell you that it is not as difficult as it seems, just be confident and original. Here are some helpful tips on how to start a conversation with a girl.
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How to start a conversation with a girl.
1. Say hello with confidence and be yourself
When you meet your classmate/collegemate or co-worker or one of the girls you want to start a conversation with, you need to be confident. Greet her with a firm handshake or a lively "Hello." Don't be a corpse, pretend to be selfless. Just be yourself, if you try to pretend she will understand you and instead of talking to you she will prefer to avoid you.
2. Present
Introducing yourself is the best way to start a conversation when a girl only knows you by sight. You can start by saying your name and profession, where you work or study, along with the fact that you wanted to meet him. If you say this confidently and impress her, she may respond by introducing you and/or giving you a hand to continue the conversation.
3. Start talking about what connects you
If you find yourself in the elevator with a woman who is your supervisor, what do you do? Do you stand quietly behind her after greeting her? Sure you can, but don't forget that you don't have the ability to get into a casual relationship with her so easily and often.
Take the opportunity and start congratulating her on a recent success. Talk to her about how motivated you and her team are to work with her, and continue the conversation if she responds. But don't be a licker! Try to do the same with her other colleagues and those who work under her supervision.
4. Keep a smiling face
Girls like to see a man smiling! It's nice because it shows you're confident. Everyone likes to talk to those people who are always happy and relaxed. So having a smiling and relaxed face is very important to have a good conversation with a girl.
5. Give her a compliment
Be honest and respectful. Tell him that he has a beautiful smile, that you like his bracelet or that his laugh is contagious. Make the compliment special to her. Be careful not to bombard her with unrealistic and exaggerated comments, it will only make you seem insincere.
Try telling him: “You have a beautiful smile, really contagious! Or: "That dress really suits you."
6. She animated
Being there for her in her hour of need is admirable and would enhance the bond between the two of you, just being there for her would make her grow fond of you.
However, this can only be done after you have met and she has opened up to you, or if you clearly sense that she is sad or that something is wrong. If so, you can cheer her up and distract her through healthy and fun conversation.
7. Talk about a common interest
What is the best way to bond with someone? Well, obviously, talking about something that unites them. Starting a conversation like this will strengthen the connection between you. It will also start a conversation that you are both interested in and have a lot of content to discuss.
8 Ask for help
If you feel too shy to start a conversation with a girl, but still want to talk to her, then you can try this technique. Generally, most girls never refuse when they are asked for some kind of help.
If you're in school or college and planning to strike up a conversation with a girl you like, for example, you might want to ask her for help with your notes.
If you're on the site and you want to start a conversation with your colleague, you can ask them to help you solve a problem or some advice for the project you need to deliver soon.
If you are a guy who lives alone in the house and you want to start a conversation with a girl who lives in your neighborhood then you can ask her to help you cook something and you can invite her to dinner from time to time, this will not only help you to start a conversation with her, but it will also help you build a better relationship with your neighborhood.
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