How to win a girl: inconvenient truth 🆙

In this article, you'll discover the basics of getting a girl, along with some uncomfortable (but fundamental) truths.

To begin with, you need to ask yourself a different question.

The question "How to get a girl" comes from a preconceived idea of scarcity.

You don't have the women you want in your life and therefore you feel like you need girls to like you.

This attitude will sabotage you at all times and prevent you from being with the women you really like.

Also… you are not attracted to ALL women.

And the same things that some women find attractive, others find repulsive.

So, rather ask yourself the question: "How can I find and attract girls that I like and that meet the needs that I have in a relationship?"

When we ask ourselves this question, we go from meeting new girls and thinking “I hope you like them” to thinking “I hope you like them”. It's a subtle but very powerful difference that will drastically change the way you date new girls.

In any case…

After this little clarification, here we give you some effective advice on how to conquer the girl you want to have in your life.

How to conquer a girl in 5 steps

1. Go your own way

The first step to attracting the women you want is to follow YOUR path.

What I mean by this?

Women are attracted to men with a vision. Men who have a mission in life and who are doing something for themselves. (Proper women are at least.)

Women don't want a man whose mission in life is to make her happy.

They want a man who has his own goals and who creates an epic life that she can be a part of.

How can you be more attractive to women?

Follow your path and create an amazing life.

If you are currently doing the same things that all other men are doing, you will get the same results (ie an embarrassing connection with no real connection or settling for a relationship you really don't want to be in).

But if you control your own path, set and achieve ambitious goals and turn your life into an adventure? The right women will walk into your existence and find you irresistibly attractive.

This doesn't mean you have to be the next Steve Jobs or Bill Gates.

What I mean is that you have to have goals.

It is necessary to have hobbies, skills and activities that most men do not delve into (eg music, art, dance, reading, archery, blogging, traveling, etc.)

Make yourself more interesting by doing more interesting things.

Create a fun and adventurous life and the right women will naturally join you.

2. Understand relationships, social status, and developmental psychology.

While the first step to being a more attractive man is having a mission and purpose, doing interesting things, and creating a life of adventure, that's not enough.

If it was, you wouldn't see so many millionaires and business tycoons hiring dating coaches to improve their love lives.

To successfully attract and retain the women you want, you must understand evolutionary psychology, emotional relationship dynamics, and the status symbol.

While I could write an entire novel on this subject, I'll try to summarize it as much as possible:

Always maintain strong eye contact with anyone.
Ask more questions and spend less time talking
Always maintain good posture.
Dress well and take care of your body
Playfully touch women you're attracted to during conversation (on the arm, shoulder, or hand)
Embrace the friend zone (women want to be with men who have other beautiful women in their life)
Create an epic circle of friends (this builds status and perceived value)
Speak with a deep vocal tone.
Develop your sense of humor (see more comedies)
Create a sense of scarcity (leave vacation early, wait to respond to messages, don't be too helpful)

Like I said, this is a broad topic, to say the least, and many successful entrepreneurs have built 7 or 8 figure empires ONLY by tapping into the nuances of these concepts.

But the list above should be enough to get you started.

3. Improve your appearance

As much as people want to tell you that looks don't matter... It matters.

Sure, there are plenty of unattractive guys who manage to date models. But it is much more difficult for these men to get a girl than it is for handsome boys.

This is the truth.

Fortunately, your appearance is something you can improve.

The first and most important step is to get in shape.

The lower your body fat, the more chiseled your face will look and the better your body will look.

I would recommend getting down to 8-9% body fat if possible (with some bulky, well-defined muscle).

Plus, by following a smart skin and dental routine, you can maximize your appearance and ensure a healthy, youthful appearance well into your 30s and 40s.

Once you've improved your fitness, you can move on to improving your style.

This doesn't mean you have to wear a suit or buy a bunch of clothes that don't fit you.

Instead, just make sure the clothes you buy fit your body perfectly, are wrinkle-free, and have a color that contrasts with your skin tone.

Add accessories like bracelets, watches, and other cool things to perfect your look.

Once you've done these things, you're ready to go.

If you present yourself well to the world and follow your own path, women will naturally appear.

Take pride in your appearance and give your best. It will make a world of difference.