Tired of hitting a wall? Arguing is not pleasant, especially with a person who does not listen. We help address these conflicts.
Last update: May 26, 2022
Dealing with people who think they are always right easily leads to exhaustion. Being in front of a wall is not pleasant for anyone, even less when we are accused of being on the defensive.
It should be understood, first of all, that it's a question of emotional intelligence. When a person sticks to her positions without listening to whoever is in front of him, he is most likely not very empathetic. In other words, he does not have sufficient emotional intelligence.
It all depends on emotional intelligence
This is certainly not a justification, but it helps to clarify. According to Dr Marta Krajniak, a psychologist at Farleigh Dickinson University, people who tend to over-control their surroundings find it more difficult to embrace other perspectives.
This American psychologist claims that low emotional intelligence may be one of the reasons for which this profile is unable to adapt.
How to deal with people who think they are right
It must be understood that interpersonal relationships are changeable and sometimes difficult. Taking these characteristics into account in most cases, it may be useful to take into account some strategies.
1. Do not diagnose any personality disorder in the other person
Always wanting to be right is typical of some personality disorders, but that doesn't mean the person you're arguing with is affected. So don't try to diagnose the other person, because in any case pointing out is the worst thing we can do.
2. Consider the low emotional intelligence of people who think they are right
Always remember that always wanting to be right usually depends on low emotional intelligence. By this we do not mean that the conduct is justified, but it is better to show one's emotional intelligence in order to infect the interlocutor.
3. Don't worry
When dealing with people who think they are always right, the worst reaction is to get angry. Our first impulse will be that, but we must counter it so that the atmosphere does not become even more tense. Once again, we need to bring out our emotional intelligence to best cope with the situation.
4. Consider for a moment that we may be wrong
When we are involved in an argument, we should always pause for a second to consider whether we are wrong. The purpose, in fact, is not to override the other, but to back down or adopt a more prudent position when necessary.
And who knows, maybe, at some point, we will realize that we were the ones who were wrong. There is nothing worse than starting a heated discussion and then realizing how wrong we were.
5. Beware of communicating with people who think they are right
Communication is essential in every contentment, even more so during conflicts, especially if it is a friend or family member. You have to be willing to listen and interact. You will be amazed to discover how many common points they actually have.
Conclusions
Conflicts with people who believe they are always right depend, as explained, above all on the low level of emotional intelligence.
The other person's presumption can be an obstacle to listening. After all, it isn't able to understand what we feel.
Emotional intelligence is the cause, but it can also be the solution in such situations. By showing off our emotional intelligence we will be able to better manage the situation and also attract our interlocutor in the field of empathy and understanding.
