Written and verified by the psychologist GetPersonalGrowth.
Last update: December 14, 2021
Sometimes all we need is a hug and a caress at the right time, who, without the use of the word, tell us “I'm here and I'm proving it to you”, and make us feel chills that take away our fears.
For this reason, it is said that sometimes a hug is the best cure for many ills, a substance that, without being material, feeds our senses and enhances our strength, our ability to face life.
So when we cling to someone, we believe in ourselves and trap our heart, drawing a big smile on our emotional mind and echoing all the reasons that at every moment are transformed into architects of our happiness.
A strong hug dispels all our fears
A strong hug dispels all our fears and sets in motion a "healing" mechanism, which affects any pain; this will allow us to overcome our malaise.
However, it is true that in addition to our subjective feelings, having a positive feeling on which to focus our attention (feeling loved) at the right time can reduce the intensity of other ailments, both physical and psychological.
To give a hug you need only desire, affection and enthusiasm, to surround and appreciate the loss of emotional distance between two people who appreciate each other and know how to smile beyond the face.
The importance of small details
In real life, no catchphrases are uttered, and no one crosses oceans to capture a smile or a hug. In real life we ​​communicate with small things that allow us to accumulate moments that are not great, they are huge.
Hugs and caresses teach us to be free and enable us to feel, to develop the emotions of our intelligence, to laugh at nonsense, to savor a thunderous laugh, to contemplate absorbed the fall of our eyelids when a sweet embrace makes us close our eyes.
Then we free ourselves from the pressure of silence and savor it, we give virtue and power to the smallest things, to everyday life, to what is able to reassemble our broken parts and to perfectly assemble the pieces that have frozen the our smile and shattered it.
It is easy to desire people, not in a sexual sense, but in an emotional sense. It is easy to need to touch the skin, to smell and feel the warmth of a hug, to look at someone's soul and to take advantage of this desire.
It is easy to feel good with a hug, because they are made for just that, to make us reach inner balance and to make us peer into the heart in a moment that intensifies the warmth of an emotional mind that wants to relieve its pains.
