Last update: 18 September, 2015
If one of your life's goals is to find a partner e maintain an important relationship with him / her, in addition to working on your relationship, you will have to work to fall in love with yourself.
Believing that you are someone who is hard not to lose your head for is the best way to have a lasting, healthy and exciting relationship.
To fall in love with yourself, you have to start by knowing yourself, enjoying the details of everyday life and having fun with their activities. Furthermore, you need to be clear about your values, feel capable of living, enforce your choices and be aware of the importance of defending your integrity.
Falling in love with yourself implies feel proud of their identity, admit and respect their flaws and be authentic.
If you don't feel attracted to yourself, why would anyone else be? Now we will explain how to fall in love with yourself.
How to fall in love with yourself
Before continuing, we want to clarify one thing: falling in love with yourself is a matter of self-esteem, it has nothing to do with narcissism. To fall in love with yourself and show the best of yourself to your partner, follow these steps:
Observe yourself. Look in the mirror. What you see is what others see.
Do you like what you see? What could you do to improve your appearance? It's not about being more beautiful, having a leaner physique or smoother skin - it's about the impression you make. You have to know how to sell yourself, dress in a way that feels comfortable, comb your hair, use a touch of color or shave properly. You must reflect an image that is consistent with your personality.
A person who does not take care of himself will not even take care of others, nor will he appreciate the efforts they make to look after their own appearance.
Providing a positive and consistent look with your personality in the eyes of others will help you keep your self-esteem high, be authentic and increase respect for yourself.. Respecting yourself is the first step to be respected by others and to give the right value to this beautiful gesture.
The way you talk and behave with others speaks to you.
The way you greet, the way you express yourself, the way you address people when you have to say or ask something, the way you react to situations, the way you laugh… All this is your business card.
Your manners also speak for the confidence you have in yourself, the respect you cultivate for yourself, how pleasant and fun you are.
Don't forget that the charm and sensuality of many people lies in their way of being in public, not so much in their physique.
The things just said in the second point have no value if what you show doesn't really represent you. You must be authentic, go beyond appearances and make your presence and your way of interacting truly sincere.. There must be harmony between who you are and what you show.
If you want to find a partner in a different environment than yours, you will first have to absorb the aspects necessary to truly connect with this person.
Friends are part of your life; if you have to give them up to devote yourself to your life as a couple, then you don't respect yourself enough. If you appreciate yourself, you need to know that life is not limited to your relationship as a couple. Furthermore, your friendships will allow you to have experiences of another kind, which you can talk to your partner about. A person with friends is someone who can be trusted.
A person who struggles to develop his projects is a person of value, full of ideas, interests, who chooses to strive and commit. He is a person with whom you can make plans, with whom you can aspire to improve and grow. He is a person who values ​​life and its surrounding environment. Furthermore, joining group projects shows you as sociable people, collaborators, with a desire to live and have fun.
