Last update: Augusts 27, 2016
In this house there is noise, they say "sorry" and hugs and second chances are given. Because being a family means allowing the sound of life to envelop us and refine the music of our daily parties, where there is respect and, first of all, sensitivity towards the needs of all members.
One thing we all know is that no house can compare to another. Each family is structured on the basis of some dynamics and some personal and exclusive communication codes which do not always guarantee the happiness of all the protagonists. It is a very complex thing.
There are very large houses where, in addition to luxury, you can experience loneliness and unhappiness. Conversely, there are small houses where only the hustle and bustle of that joy full of reciprocity reigns, of making difficult things easy, of accepting differences. Ultimately, authentic wealth is just that, being united and knowing that the most precious thing is not possessed, but is next to it.
We invite you to reflect on this.
The elements that form the psychology of a house
A house is a miniature universe, a reflection of society seen under the microscope. What happens within the four walls of a home is a tremendously powerful combination where values, behaviors and emotions affect each member of the family in a certain way.
Environmental psychologists tell us that every environment is made up of three basic and essential elements, which are also present in every home.
- The material factors are the physical elements that give a house a certain atmosphere, expect this which is very important for Feng Shui, for example. According to this philosophical and aesthetic focus, the harmonic arrangement of space has a certain influence on people's emotions. We will all have noticed this sometime.
- Personal factors, on the other hand, are determined by the interrelationships of the people who inhabit that space, by their habits and by their way of establishing bonds with each other.
- Mental factors are undoubtedly the most relevant processes in family dynamics. It is in them that we find the paradigms, beliefs, values, personalities and conditionings established by each member of a family.
A house, therefore, is an enclosed space in which all its "tenants" unfold their invisible wings of influence in their personal nests. where, on the one hand, the most total well-being can reign, on the other hand, the most complex unhappiness based on these mental processes.
From our part, we want to explain to you how the most worthy and fulfilling houses are built, these with their own music and where, despite the best and other worst moments, the song is always beautiful.
- The fulfilling family infects positive emotions through understanding looks. There are no “all or nothing” blackmail viruses, “because I say so” or “if you do it, it means you don't love me”.
- In an intelligent and happy home lives the light of open windows, of empathic hearts and voices accustomed to making noise, to express themselves freely, with authenticity, without vetoes or fears.
- Differences are accepted in the healthy hearth, there are no sanctions for different points of view, everyone enjoys personal spaces in which to grow with dignity and common spaces in which to share this worthy and happy bond of the family that they adore and who like to spend time together.
A home is where our favorite people live together, those we call family because they have been able to create a hearth from the heart, through a pure and noble affection. After all, it is these people who you laugh with every day, who dry your tears and make life less hard.
