Last update: June 10, 2016
To mature means to accept ourselves, to love ourselves and above all to make peace with our being a woman.
It can always happen that we go through a complicated time when the darkness of problems prevents us from seeing the way out. It is necessary to start from this encounter with ourselves to reverse the situation. In this way, we will avoid being paralyzed and overcome ourselves.
As women, you know that society constantly invites you to postpone the maturity of your heart. Being beautiful forever, using cosmetics so as not to age and trying to pass the time are the fundamental points of a social structure that does not allow us to fully mature.
For a woman approaching maturity, it is necessary to find an emotional point where she can connect with her soul, her essence and her memories. Today we invite you to read a wonderful letter written by a woman immersed in this moment of life, with an infinity of feelings to share, from which there is always something to learn.
"The maturity of man consists in having regained the seriousness with which he played as a child".
(Friedrich Wilhelm Nietzsche)
Courageous woman in defense of what she believes in
Beautiful women on the outside and beautiful on the inside, with beautiful skin like yours. With the courage to stand up for what they believe in, but also respectful and open to other options. This is how I felt in the interminable and profound speeches in which I engaged. Champion of children, I listen with my heart, I speak with my soul.
Always willing to help. Demanding with themselves. Cheerful, funny, with a beautiful smile, affectionate. Meticulous, perfectionist, attentive, nothing is missing. Fully committed to their loved ones. Mothers first, but also wives, sisters, aunts and daughters. They love endlessly, appreciate the little things, read other people's hearts.
Take responsibility only for what you can
Women of character and emotional, who love and suffer at the same time. Take on only the responsibilities that you can handle: you cannot give more than this and, if you don't take care of yourself and don't give yourself affection, you will end up getting sick and you won't be able to help anyone anymore. Everyone in this world has to give the best of himself and get by on his own.
And who supports us? Almost always the family: economically and emotionally, loving each other a lot and without judging, but basically we are the only ones to walk our path. Blaming others is like putting your head in the sand; how ugly envy! Let us leave it to those who feed on it, I don't want people like that next to them. But I love our joy, our will to live, the strength we have even when we are weak and this is what I want to imbue myself with, this is what I want to absorb.
You are worth what you are, not how hard you work
When I think of us women, I smile and savor this moment of joy. We are delicious and exquisite like the cakes we prepare, for the texture, the sweetness, the beauty, the work behind it and the flavor! Continue along your path and do not be discouraged! You are not only worth for how much you work, but for what you are.
There is a story that I am very fond of and that always excites me: the story of a tree. A planted tree that resembles life. The body leaves, but the soul cannot be forgotten. It can be seen in a leaf, in a fruit, in the root, in a seed, in a star. As long as it is remembered, that tree will not die. It will always renew itself and will only grow.
I have nothing more to say, only that I am happy to have found women with such big hearts along my path. Walking, you always meet beautiful people, to see them you just have to feel good about yourself and you are part of them. I give you a hug with all the positive energy I have, so that it blends with yours and never leaves you. I give you all my love and understanding.
"In reality, people who have realized, those who have reached a high level of maturity, health and self-satisfaction, have so much to teach us that at times they almost seem to belong to another species"
(Abraham Maslow)
