Last update: April 13, 2016
Love changed my life. It didn't happen once, rather it did it in every moment of my existence when I fell in love ...Love has always managed to work wonders on me.
It must be borne in mind that when I speak of love and its ability to change people's lives, I am also referring to falling out of love, a trigger that puts our existence in crisis if we allow it to dominate our hearts and our minds.
Love and disaffection, two sides of the same coin
Unfortunately, in most cases, love can also end up being associated with lack of love. However, there is no need to think of this as a problem, rather as a side of the same coin that doesn't necessarily have to be the predominant one.
"Absence and time are null when you love."
-Alfred de Musset-
It is evident that when you fall in love with a person, everything seems perfect and wonderful. You have the impression of touching the sky with a finger and the whole world appears more beautiful and idyllic than it was before. Suddenly, you have met a person who is perfect for you. She understands everything you do and what you say, she always supports you, her breath doesn't stink and she doesn't seem to have any physical or character imperfections.
Without a doubt, it goes without saying that this cannot last forever. As time goes by, you realize that that person who was wonderful at first has their problems, maybe he snores at night and sometimes does things you don't understand.
Be that as it may, it is important that your ability to love her does not fade just because you have understood that the other person is a human being, with his or her weaknesses and strengths, like everyone in this world.
Even so, it is possible that you will find that the love of your life is not perfect, and you may feel that your relationship is deteriorating by the day, but it does not have to be a reason to let it go. Simply you must fight with all your strength to keep the flame of love alive.
But if you have already used all your resources to carry on your relationship, and none of them have worked, here comes the critical moment of lack of love, which overshadows you like a dark ebony cloak and makes everything more sad, desolate and depressing. The time has come when you realized that love has changed your life. It is on this concept that you will focus if you are truly able to get back on your feet and look to the future with hope.
Love is openness, lack of love closes you in yourself
Disaffection can cause you to close in on yourself, your forces will focus on being more disheartened, cautious, protective and alarmist. The next time love shows up at your door, you will be very cautious, and you will have solid armor… but you could also miss a wonderful opportunity.
Why love is openness, happiness, joy and hope. And if a lack of love manages to prevent you from returning to trust your neighbor for fear that he will harm you, in reality you are the person who is hurting himself, since you are not sincere with your heart, and you are pushing others away. just out of fear, even if your soul is clamoring for you to take the risk.
For this love can change your life. Because when love is strongly present in your lives, you will not be worried about protecting yourself, but you will certainly be open to happiness, to give your heart to those who know how to win it and deserve it, and to look to the future with hope while you live a happy and bright present.
"I love you to love you and not to be loved, since nothing gives me so much pleasure as seeing you happy."
-George Sand-
Living surrounded by love and allowing it to change your life does not mean being perpetually in love, rather it is about being willing to live it, receive it and perceive it with every fiber of your being. Letting love change your life means not closing yourself off from the experiences it has in store for you, rather let it come into your heart and fill it with satisfaction and happiness, even when they have hurt you.
Don't get attached to the negative, living behind an armor of fear and falsehood. Let love enter your heart and change your life, because there are many good and loving people who are willing to make you happy.
