Last update: 14 March, 2016
I don't want people near me who transmit negativity to me, who only see the ugliness of life. I want people who are crazy about life, who want to jump and laugh, who have the passion to live and that they teach me many new things every day, that they learn from me, that they enjoy every moment and that they give me the energy to live.
I like people who vibrate, who are passionate, who love what they do, who are not afraid, who have learned that changes are opportunities. I like people who convey their joy to me, who hug and kiss with sincerity, who say what they think with respect and who don't shut up, who teach me what love means and who stay by my side when I really need it.
"All the battles in life serve to teach us something, even the lost ones"
-Paulo Coelho-
How to spot toxic people
In many areas of our life (in the workplace, among our friends, in our family, etc.) we find negative people, who they make the atmosphere heavy wherever they are and that make us feel bad. For this reason, it is very important to identify them as soon as possible and you will succeed knowing how they behave:
They think that everything and everyone is against them
Toxic people are insecure and, because of this, they always think that all things and people around them are against them. They reflect their lack of self-esteem on others, thus demonstrating low self-confidence and their own inner malaise. They are people who do not love themselves and who, therefore, they are unable to love others or see the positivity in other people.
They don't take any advice
Toxic people think they know everything, they accept neither criticism nor advice. If you express your opinion, they get angry and end up rejecting you. Do not try to argue with such a person, it is a futile effort. Just change the subject and, as soon as you can, get away as fast as possible.
They think nothing has a solution
A toxic person only sees the problems, never the solutions, and if he doesn't see them, he creates them. He will do everything possible to feel like a victim and to act as such in front of others, as a way of attracting attention. He will never see a change as a new opportunity or a problem as an opportunity to learn and will not seek a solution. It will simply continue to complain.
They make a shield out of sincerity
Toxic people they tend to say everything they think without filters and without a minimum of assertiveness or empathy towards others. In this way, they think they are sincere, but they hurt others and do not allow them to say what they think, because they feel threatened.
This means that they take refuge behind the fact that they are sincere in order to be able to say what they want without consequences and they are unable to accept the words of others, even if it is a constructive criticism.
What crazy people do with life
Positive people, people who are crazy about life, keep learning, do many things to be able to live life to the fullest and not stand still. Crazy people in life are the ones I want in mine, because:
They take their responsibilities
People who want to live life accept the fact that they are the ones who make the decisions, they are the ones who are responsible for what happens in their life, who can change it and learn. People who are crazy about life know they can do whatever they want.
“Enthusiasm is contagious. It is difficult to remain neutral or indifferent in the presence of a person who has a positive mentality ”.
-Denis Waitley-
They don't compare themselves to other people
A positive person does not compare himself to anyone, because he knows his own defects and virtues, because he knows what he is good at and always learns his lesson, so as not to make the same mistakes again. A person who has learned to like himself is also able to love others, to show them his love and to be loved in turn.
They don't keep complaining about their mistakes
People who know how to love themselves, who know each other, have learned to take risks and face the consequences. They know you can win or lose, but you always learn. They grow up knowing that mistakes and mistakes are part of our existence, because we are human, but they also know how to manage their emotions for their own benefit.
"Don't give up, because this is life, continue the journey, chase your dreams, use all the time available, shake off the rubble and get to heaven"
-Mario Benedetti-
