Last update: 01 March, 2015
When we talk and we are in front of children, we always pay attention because we do not want them to learn bad words or to utter them relentlessly making us feel ashamed. Children say many things without stopping to think about the effect their words might have in a given context.
This is what the words are for our life; the latter follows the direction of the words we have spoken, which is why thinking before speaking is very important, it avoids many "uncomfortable" situations.
Words have the power to create and destroy
Our words have the power to create and the power to destroy, the best example is a friendship or a romantic relationship that begins with conversations and can end with any misplaced word..
Returning to our lives, the ideal would be to re-educate, nurture and restore our vocabulary. As we grow and mature, we lose our innocence. This may decrease our ability to grow. So we start to doubt, of ourselves and of others, to see everything black and negative instead of thinking positively, to be wary before knowing.
"Is there no food?" or "Is there food?", in practice the question is the same, but by saying the first we are already conditioned on the answer, "there is not".
"I'm poor"
"I can not"
"I do not have it"
"I do not know"
"I won't even try"
If we say “We can't”, it is Of course we can't, but even if we say “Yes, I can” it's certain we can. It is not always true that the words "if the wind blows them away" remain trapped in our mind and heart and establish the direction of our life, the path we decide to take.
If your vocabulary is poor and pessimistic, so will your life. You want so many things, you want peace of mind, you want to be happy, etc., but your mouth declares the opposite.
Remember that your future depends on your words, so start changing your life by paying attention to the words you speak and your way of speaking, as if you were always surrounded by children.. At that point your life will follow the path you really want to be on.
