Last update: January 27, 2015
When relationships end, we fail to admit that they are over, perhaps because we feel hurt and sad, especially when a relationship has suddenly been destroyed that seemed to promise us eternal happiness. We could say that we do not accept the past because we hold a grudge or because we are too proud to forgive. Very often we are not sincere, because we do not want to forget who we have loved. Indeed, we never stop loving totally who we once passionately loved.
And sometimes we have had to work hard to give up one thing or another, but it is certain that sometimes, as much as we may wish, there are relationships that have no future, even if there is love. It happened to me, and I seem to see myself again when I continually tried to forget someone who always seemed to remain there, who reappeared in my days of nostalgia, of enthusiasm, because when I am sad I would like to go back to those days when I was particularly happy. And when I feel happy I would like to take back those days when I could smile with that someone by my side who is no longer there.
I feel part of a thousand other stories that I know while living; love has made other people sad, leaving only memories that at times, being human, we would like to leave behind. What is the point of remembering? Perhaps it is useless, however ... Remembering is starting to live again, so someone told me a few days ago. And surely, do you see yourself remembering something? By committing yourself to remember a particular moment, that smile or that happy or perhaps unhappy memory ...
Life with its accelerated routine continually takes us away from these reflections, but do not be afraid to say that you do not forget or you have not forgotten. Think, therefore, without thinking about who you have loved. Because reflecting, sometimes I think that I commit ourselves, that we commit ourselves to this, because we secretly yearn for those happy days with someone who, even if after some time, is very important. Life has taken away the pleasure of feeling in love, but let's take back our life and keep remembering. Because one thing is certain: nothing remains as alive in our hearts as a love that we could not hold back.