Last update: 29 November 2017
If you love me, love me all:
not for areas of light or shade.
Love me day;
love me night ...
It is dawn at the open window!
If you love me, don't cut me out:
love me all ...
or don't love me!
Sweet Maria Loynaz
We are not incomplete beings. We don't need half an apple to be happy. We are apples, oranges, lemons, peaches and countless other fruits that surround the world in their own way.
Sometimes we are lucky enough to encounter another fruit that rotates at the same pace as us. So, let's start walking together, walks that can last a lifetime or end after a few moments.
A peach can combine perfectly with an orange, if both are willing to share life and if they are able to respect their differences and mutual coincidences.
Love and respect go hand in hand
To enclose your suffering means to risk that it devours you from the inside.
Frida Kahlo
The deception of the half apple and Disney loves subdues us to such an extent that we end up seeing those half-hearted loves as normal. Conforming to this kind of love means condemning ourselves to loneliness.
When the "now yes, now no" or "maybe tomorrow will interest me" are established in our relationships, it is a bad sign. That is to say, if we love, we love fully and by giving all that is healthy, which we also give to ourselves.
This is not just a matter of principle, but of respect and consideration for ourselves. It is neither right nor healthy to give love without at least receiving something that makes us feel good.
We agree that love must be selfless, but that doesn't mean it must be null and void.
The love we all deserve is full love
You deserve a love that you want
disheveled,
despite the reasons they make you
get up quickly,
let them sleep. You deserve a love that makes you
feel safe, able to eat the world
when he walks beside you, that he feels that your hugs are
perfect for her skin.
You deserve a love that wants to dance
with you,
that you find heaven every time
look into your eyes,
that you never get bored of reading
your expressions.
You deserve a love that listens to you
when you sing,
that you lean on when you make a fool of yourself,
that you respect your being free,
to accompany you on your flight,
who is not afraid of falling.
You deserve a love that sweeps you away
Lies
that brings you the dream,
the coffee
and poetry.
It does not mean that others must adore every part of you or your every mania, only those who truly love you will not try to change you, nor to manipulate you. Every little gesture makes our being and our world something exceptional, which deserves consideration.
We must let our partner love us as he wants and not as we want, but always flying with the wings of freedom. This means that no one has the right to make us vulnerable, or to play with us.
In this sense, we cannot get carried away by our needs or our conception of ideal love, but we must establish the foundations of respect, approval and reciprocity.
We don't deserve to be half loved. We deserve to be shown to do it and, for this, it is essential to deactivate selfishness. Because, simply, true love does not take advantage of anything, of any situation.
