Last update: June 19, 2016
Maybe you have started reading a book on a specific topic and not being able to move on after the first five pages or you want to do something special in your free time or on holidays and end up doing things that had nothing. to do with your desires and stimuli. These are some signs that can tell you whether, at this very moment, you are where you really want to be or not.
Everyone has fantasies about how they would like their life to go, but only those who walk the right side of the path can turn them into reality.. How do you know if you are where you really want to be? How to understand if that is really the right path for you or if you are wrong? If you do not find adequate answers to these questions, you will pay the duty very dearly.
There are people who embark on a journey without realizing that it does not represent what they want to do in life. And these are the same people who, when they realize what they are doing, believe it is too late and prefer to stay in a cage, despite having the keys to exit tightly in their fists.
How to tell if you are where you really want to be
Complaints are part of your everyday language
To realize that the keys to freedom are in your hands, you will need to look for some signs that indicate that you are dwelling in a place unsuitable for you. These signs are a warning so that you can change direction and start feeling good. If you see yourself complaining constantly, interpret this behavior as one of these indicators.
If you are not satisfied with your job, your salary, your family, the people around you, your life or yourself, then it is very likely that you spend your days complaining about everything, even the air you breathe. If you are among these people who only see the negative aspect of things, it means that in your mind there are only dark and catastrophic thoughts.
When there is only darkness in the mind, it means that your thoughts are acting against you, as in this way, you shape the life you complain about and want to escape from. To start changing things, you must adopt the good habit of being grateful for what you have in life and have a positive attitude in the face of what you necessarily have to face.
You are not enjoying life
Now imagine life as a sweater, which is very beautiful to see, but then, when you wear it, it pinches you all over. From a certain point of view you like it, but there are many other aspects that create anxiety and, in the long run, pain in you.
Why when you live in a place that is inappropriate for you, when you spend time wishing for "something else", your body, as the shell of the mind, also suffers. It has been shown that a sad state of mind reduces defenses and, when combined with lack of attention, makes us particularly exposed to the contraction of diseases or their degeneration.
From a certain point of view, working and accumulating is good. Enjoying economic resources, in itself, is not deplorable, but remember the story of that man who spent years and years saving "because you never know", until death surprised him, an unexpected event for which they did not help. nothing all those coins and bills. Success is built day by day, this is the real job.
"Generally human happiness is not obtained with great strokes of luck, which usually appear rarely, but with the little things that happen every day".
(Benjamin Franklin)
You waste too much time doing unnecessary things
Wasting your time doing useless things is another clear sign that something is wrong. Surfing the Internet for hours without doing something really productive, watching television all afternoon, playing video games, smoking or drinking to excess are indicators that you must evaluate if you want to understand if you are living the reality that suits you or not.
Do you think you can enjoy success and satisfaction by doing what you do every day? Do you really believe that this gives you well-being or do you think it is the cause of the gradual fading of the flame you have inside you? Don't allow your light to be dimmed and look for the things that make you feel good really.
“One day somewhere, somewhere, inevitably, you will meet yourself. And this, only this, can be the happiest or the most bitter of your days. "
(Pablo Neruda)
Seek your goals and grasp your dreams ... Once you start walking the right path and change your habits, your life will come to a turning point and will be better. You will feel so free that you will no longer waste time complaining or doing things that don't satisfy you!
