I love you to love you and not to be loved

    I love you to love you and not to be loved

    I love you to love you and not to be loved

    Last update: 04 September, 2015

    ... because nothing gives me so much joy as seeing you happy.

    We all agree that love is one of the most beautiful things that can be experienced in life. Feeling loved and wanted by someone makes us live better and makes us want to be better people.

    So what happens when we get to know the person we want to spend the rest of our life with and love them like the first day? It happens that we win the greatest prize in life: unconditional and exclusive love towards another human being.



    Loving makes us complete paths, full of life and without emotional deficiencies. Everything is completed, even ourselves. Nowadays, however, there is a tendency to underestimate the fact that to keep that love sacred, it is necessary to take care of one's relationships, in this case of one's partner..

    The dedication and attention will allow our precious emotions to last over time, so the initial emotional bond will be maintained with the same intensity.

    Basically, we must strive to show the person that we love all the love we feel for them. This is how love will grow stronger over time and in our hearts. We must never be ashamed of what we feel and not even be influenced by those around us.

    Before we move on, we want to remind you of something simple, but necessary and full of meaning:

    Love involves and requires continuous effort and work.

    Certainly, at some point in life, everyone has happened to take it for granted. Love is constant attention and respect. This is why couples who have been together for a long time prevail, because they know how to preserve the strength of their love and do not stop winning each other day after day..



    Have you ever wondered what the ingredients of a lasting relationship are? We anticipate that they are much simpler than what you are used to thinking.

    Life is not just any movie you see on television, it is your movie. You choose the genre. Making it a reality is your and your heart's job. You just need both people involved in the relationship and their total dedication to love.

    These are the 5 ingredients to establish and always keep a relationship alive:

    1. Always try to break the routine. We are used to accepting the idea that, after the fury of the first months of a relationship in which everything seems perfect and the partner has no defects, things start to change.

    This happens when monotony is increasingly present in the relationship. The same schedules, the same speeches, the same schedules, sexual habits and activities as ever will not help you keep the flame of love alive.

    2. Communication is essential. One of the most difficult tasks in a relationship: communication. In order for you and your partner to know what you expect and what you need from each other, good and sincere communication is essential.

    Perhaps you have begun to feel completely uncomfortable and your partner has not noticed. We invite you to talk to him with affection and lots of love.

    3. Show yourself the love you feel for each other. Don't let lack of time distract you from your efforts to keep love alive with gestures of affection and tenderness.


    Feeling the person we love close to our heart, feeling his contact, allows us to further develop the existing bond and strengthen the mutual connection.



    4. Be considerate of one another. Being caring in love is a concept that many people don't quite understand, especially when it comes to the purpose. Showing attention and particular care towards the person we love is a good and useful thing, but it will be useless if we do not do it with unconditional love.

    Get your partner used to receiving love constantly and, from time to time, for no particular occasion or reason, behave differently and apply an extra dose of attention, so that your loved one feels special, different. and appreciated.


    5. Make sure you make your partner smile every day. Laughter is contagious and this also applies to couples. Smiling will help you adopt a positive attitude, as well as feel fulfilled and happy.

    Full of optimism about life and your relationship as a couple. You already know that there are many benefits of laughter, both physically and emotionally. Never stop smiling and laughing with the person you love the most.

    Absence and time are nothing when you love.

    Alfred de Musset

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