Last update: 08 March, 2018
We love people who know how to make bold decisions in difficult times. Those who choose what they really want… versus what others think is logical or coherent. They do it when it is more difficult, when everything seems to be against them, saying: "If there is anyone who bets on me, it is me". We like people who, starting from respect, free themselves from those chains seem to bind us to those who have helped us, who do not confuse this debt, if it exists, with their freedom.
We all have had this feeling, we can already find it in children: many of them, when their parents buy them a toy, become more obedient. Not because they want another one, but because they have integrated the principle of reciprocity into their behavior. And if this does not happen spontaneously, there are many parents who remind them of this "debt", let's call it that. "You don't have to misbehave, I bought you the toy!", "We went to the playground for a long time today, so now you have to order your room!".
People who know how to make courageous decisions: honest and sincere
People who make bold decisions in difficult times they tend to be honest and give up on being in two places at once when that's not possible. They are the ones who decide: "This is my card and I play it". They are wonderful because they respond to the most powerful force they can rely on and feed it: the life force.
We love people who know how to define themselves, who have clear their priorities and understand that at certain times, remaining faithful to them means making sacrifices.. And they do, even if what they lose or leave behind causes them pain.
Because they put the family in front of everything and they don't lose those wonderful routines they have created with it, not even for the most interesting offer that can exist; or because they are very clear that their work comes first and are willing to move from city to city to do what they like.
People who make bold decisions in difficult times are honest with themselves and they neither want nor aspire to find a solution for what they cannot get to, they do not try to appear more than what they are. They say, "Okay, the day has 24 hours, not 48", and they don't try to make it have more. They don't try. And they don't force others to get them where they don't want to and can't. They don't run after the clock, they do it when they want. If they know they don't have the time to have children, then they either create this time or they don't have children, but they don't become the parents of others or turn their life into a constant sacrifice.
They know their luck
When we relate to people who are capable of making bold decisions in difficult times we know what to expect, we may like it or not, but what they say goes hand in hand with what they do. They do what they say they will try to do; for what they say no to, they have reasons.
We love people who know how to make bold decisions in difficult times because they tend to never forget that they are lucky: because their heart beats, because they can feed hope, because they have a body that is the most perfect and most useful machine of the best machine we have been able to create with technology. Because they breathe, isn't it great to breathe? In itself, for the simple fact of being able to do it, without having to confront those who cannot do it. Breathe in and of itself. Breathe in air and then breathe it out.
I like them because they love life, they are able to build a positive story of their role within it, to fight for justice while knowing that this world is not fair and that some people may call you stupid for it. We love them because they recognize their faults, but they don't stop trying. Maybe they are not skilled "handymen", but there they are, on the ladder trying to change the bulb that no longer works. Whether it is a little or a lot, they try to use all their skills and take a great risk. The beautiful risk of learning.
They have the same fears that everyone else has, but they understand that they are part of the game. Those who when they approach make some people give up, while others make others say: “Try it? Why not?" Doesn't the child throw the spoon down to understand how gravity works? They are people who keep throwing spoons on the ground because they are extremely curious. Because they have more confidence, they are consequently able to make bold decisions in difficult times.
In their awareness of being very small, they are actually giants.
