Last update: December 14, 2015
That summer day, on that terrace overlooking the sea, at sunset, tears streaked my face, silently, slowly, walking towards the corner of the kisses, those kisses you had stopped giving me. You told me you loved me, but my heart didn't believe you anymore. After that summer, I slowly drifted away and never saw you again, never again.
If, at some point in your life, you have experienced something similar, you will have realized that your partner no longer loves you. Do not fight: no one can be forced to be loved. Cry, let out your anger, but then slowly walk away, say goodbye. The people and things you like are still there; little by little, the images will disappear, along with your tears.
6 signs that your partner has stopped loving you
When someone does not love you, you feel it, you perceive it and, even if you bury this feeling of rejection under a thousand excuses and justifications, sooner or later it will come to the surface. Do not oppose: let him out, let him go as soon as possible and resume your life. When your partner no longer loves you, even if he doesn't tell you, you will know.
1) Your partner will tell you it's not true, that he still loves you
He will deny everything, he will clearly state that he loves you, but his words will be contradicted by his actions. Focus on what he does, not what he says. People reveal through behaviors words and stories they tried to contain.
2) Be realistic
Look at your relationship; how? How do you feel? If you feel bad, there is something wrong. You may have talked about it a thousand times, but that something is still there; in this case, you have to see reality for what it is. It's tough, but you have to be objective. Don't let self-deception manage your moments. Be honest with yourself and open your eyes; observe the reality that surrounds you.
3) He doesn't want to spend time with you
A couple has fun together: neither of them runs away or makes up excuses and commitments of any kind not to see the other. If your partner makes no effort to spend time with you, then he doesn't love you. In general, even if we have many commitments and a lot of work, we find a moment to spend with our sweetheart, if only to let her know that we think about her.
"Don't spend time with someone who isn't willing to spend it with you."
(Gabriel GarcĂa Márquez)
4) He doesn't trust you
In a couple, distrust and jealousy derive mainly from misunderstandings. However, when the mistrust persists despite being made clear, it means that love has shrunk or even disappeared.
5) It doesn't help you when you need it
We must not create a situation of necessity that does not exist just to attract attention. However, if there is a real need for help, and your partner is not looking after it, then it would be good to analyze the facts, understand what is going on and be very honest. What good is it for you to be together with a person you can't count on when you need it?
6) He does not show his affection to you
If the hugs, the kisses, the caresses, the looks, the sex, are gone for a long time, then your partner doesn't love you anymore.. The initial passion has a limited duration, it is true, but after this first phase, the displays of affection continue. They are probably calmer, but they are still there.
"Love doesn't need to be understood, only to be demonstrated."
(Paulo Coelho)
How to forget a person who no longer loves you
- Do what you like. Do you remember that restaurant where you loved eating so much? It's still there, go there. It doesn't matter if you feel alone, enjoy your favorite dish, enjoy every bite of your life, made to be lived. Maybe at first someone will stare at you because you are alone, but after a while, no one will notice you anymore and you can enjoy your moment quietly.
- Say enough. When a relationship is ending, a place, an image, a memory, a song, all these things will bring to mind the happy moments; then you will allow the tears to flow down your face. Let them gush and say "enough"; stop that memory. "It's over!", Say it out loud, listen to each other and you will see that, little by little, the memory will diminish and will no longer harm you.
- Practice meditation. Meditation is an intellectual exercise with which we try to reach a state of concentration on a thought, an object or on our body. There are different techniques, some make use of concentration and others of mindfulness, that is, full consciousness. Meditate to forget, to focus on something else, on yourself. Feel how loneliness caresses and embraces you, enjoy your moment.
“When your partner no longer loves you, you will know it, even if he doesn't tell you. You will feel it from the depths of your soul, because indifference never goes unnoticed ”.
(Walter Laughs)
